Your Pandemic Holiday Table

November, 2020

Fall Table in our Ojai Home

2020 has challenged us to live a new way and the holidays will not be an exception. Government officials are asking us to limit traveling and exposure to large gatherings of family and friends. Our twelve foot dining table won’t be filled this year with the smiling, hungry faces of close friends and family who normally occupy our table side seating. But, we are determined to make this year memorable too – albeit exclusively for our small tribe. There is decorating fun to be had regardless…

The “proper way” to set a table.

It Began Here

I grew up with a grandmother who loved collecting dishes, sterling silver, chrystal, colored glassware and throwing an old fashion dinner party. She loved setting an elaborate table with her collected treasures and spent hours showing me how I could learn to do the same. I keep the picture shown above under the favorites category on my iPhone. It’s a reminder of treasured time spent with my grandmother. In recent years, as coursed dinners have gained in popularity, it has been a valuable source of reference. My kids love a fully set holiday table. My daughter is especially thrilled she knows the meaning for specific sizes of forks and where they are placed. This year we will set the table together like I did, at her age, with my grandmother.

Inspiration

Last year, pre-pandemic, I flew to a friends sea side fiftieth birthday. It was a nine course meal and I was asked to come a few days early to decorate the private dining room. It was a fall event, and the cooler evening beckoned for a a cozy but elegant table palette. The room had metallic shaded lighting and I lined silver ball garlands down the center of the table to create more reflective surfaces. The light from the candles bounced off the glittery surfaces and the collection of three stemmed glasses at each setting. Because we were near the beach, white shells and starfish were subtly placed along the table design. Faux leaves were sprayed with glitter and laid underneath the white hydrangea and white rose arrangements. For me, keeping flower types segregated rather than arranged is more elegant and modern on the table. I love adding a few stems of green Amaranthus flower stems to low profile vases and casually draping their tendrils around the decorative items. When decorating for a festive occasion, don’t forget about what surrounds your table. For my friend’s party, I utilized the ledges on the stone wall for small votive lights which warmed the feeling of the room and played off the reflective colors on the table.

Holiday decor found in our backyard

What you’re looking for may be in your own backyard…

Every year I forage around my backyard for table decor. This is one of the perks of living in Southern California. Luckily, a warm extended summer allowed the roses to bloom when the pomegranates ripened. I love the combination of fruit and flowers. Peppercorns are great decoration as well. I make platters combining what I find in the yard. I use them to decorate our kitchen island when we lay out a buffet for more casual meals.

Floating one open rose at time in a clear glass container is a simple and elegant decoration.

The branches from my lemon tree and my orange trees also make terrific decor. In the Spring, at Easter time we leave the fruit on the branches and a citrus aroma fills our home. Mixing up dishware is also fun to do. We love to use a different pattern of Italian pottery at each setting. This is also delightful to do with china patterns, combining two or three sets together for one festive meal.

Personalize

Whether it is a monogrammed napkin or a printed glass, personalizing your table is a special treat for your guests. We have a great time designing OHI HOME items for client dinners and business gifts. At home, we bring out the gold rimmed vintage glasses monogrammed for my husband’s great grandmother’s wedding in 1915. These are some of our favorite holiday treasures. Go all out this year designing your table scape, even though it’s just for your immediate family. It’s a surprising way to lift everyone’s spirits!

Fall Feels…

Cooler weather changes the way we want to feel in our home. A morning chill elicits the unpacking of our favorite faux fur blankets made with love by our friend and blanket designer Brian Severson. Snuggling into the sofa has become the new morning routine, coffee in hand and wrapped in one of Brian’s incredible creations. www.blanketsbybrian.com

As fall weather begins, custom made faux fur blankets adorn our living room sofa. Brian even made a special monogram for OHI HOME.

Other Fall Home Additions We Love

  • We love hand dipped candles from Hudson Grace. In October, we use the black colored candles on surfaces throughout our home. In November, we switch to the natural color for the remainder of the holiday season. The gold HG Monogram adds an air of elegance.
  • Switch out ceramic serving platters for wood boards, baskets and even butcher paper. There’s something so fall about these surfaces.
  • Think out of the box when you buy pumpkins – there a a plethora of choices -cinderella pumpkins, white pumpkins, squash varieties and gourds.

http://www.hudsongracesf.com

Fall Cooking

Summer is a time in our Ojai home for casual meals and snacks. Readily available sandwich supplies stock the fridge, containers of cut up watermelon, berries and carrots. Bowls full of tomatoes from the garden that we might throw into a salad with some homegrown basil and fresh mozzarella. A fresh catch from the nearby beach ready to throw onto the grill with some corn… BUT Fall is a whole different story. The smell of pumpkin spice bread almost decorates the home on its own. Bowls of roasted nuts set out for in between meal snacks, and piles of spaghetti squash and other cool-season vegetables help to cozy up the kitchen.

Fall inspires baking, cooking and candlelit intimate dinners with family.

http://www.cooks.com/recipe/wl6pg5f6/bohemian-spice-cake.html

A change of season marks a change of scene for our main gathering room. Falls colors like orange and red and yellow replace summer whites and hot weather hues. Autumn is the perfect time to be whimsical with design choices. Have fun with what you are displaying in your home. There’s never been a better time to curate your space.

Living with Art

A Christian Garnet painting hangs over this Santa Barbara fireplace in one of our
OHI HOME designs.

Quite simply, your art does not need to match your sofa. This is the number one piece of advice I give clients who are designing or redesigning their home. Great art speaks for itself and if hung or placed beautifully it elevates the look of the home.

Framing

There are a million variations in framing artwork. Personally, we tend to lean towards clean, simple framing choices like plain white linen matting and white finished wood, or natural gallery frames. But occasionally a piece calls for something unique like a bright colored frame or a metallic finish. You art does not have to be framed the same. Different pieces call for different designs.

Yassi Manzandi artwork framed in a gold leaf frame.

Gallery Walls

One of the newest decor trends is a gallery wall. It’s a great way to create a bold design impact statement in your home. We have been buying art for over twenty years – paintings, works on a paper, etchings, lithographs, etc and the collection of small pieces we’ve amassed was ideal for a gallery wall in our front entry. Don’t be afraid to hire a professional to help you install your collection. Luckily one of our dear friends is well versed in art installation, having owned a gallery in NYC and currently running a college museum. He was able to create a beautiful wall of art in our home.

Gallery Wall, Installed with expertise by J.C. Connelly

Your Story

The art in your home tells a story about you and there are so many mediums in the art world to explore. Touring art collections, galleries, artist’s open studios, art foundations and art fairs is a great way to figure out what you like.

Visting MoMA in NYC for Lousie Bourgeois: An Unfolding Portrait

Your art collection doesn’t need to be one genre. Works on paper, paintings, sculpture, etchings, lithographs can be easily showcased together inside of your home. Art looks great when displayed on surfaces beside art books, ceramics and plants.

Sizing

Art comes in all sizes. If your budget is restricted, hanging smaller art pieces symmetrically together can utilize the wall space as well as well as one large piece. Also, when framing, matting work in larger mats can expand the scale of the installation.

Memorial Portraits – Marc Swanson and Joe Mama-Nitzberg,

Oversized art can fill a room beautifully especially in an uncluttered home.

Wild Animal Photographer Jennifer MaHarry’s Great Horned Owl transforms this front hallway into a bold impressive space.

Embrace your inner art lover. Live with what gives you joy.

The exploration of art is endless!

Art Installation, Marfa, Texas

STUFF

Yesterday, at our installation, I overheard a handyman remark on our home staging work to his colleague. “Man, this is great. It’s so easy looking in here. I wish my house looked like this. I have no idea how I got so much stuff!” His reaction is commonplace in the post staging process. Almost everyone has too much stuff. It’s why so many of our occupied staging clients work repeatedly with our recommended decluttering expert, prior to our home staging.

One of the rare gifts of 2020, has been the opportunity we have all had to self evaluate our living space. At my house, we finally switched out the dated exterior lights we inherited with our move-in two years ago. It was our intention to switch them out immediately, but two years later, during our home stay, I finally executed my plan. My husband, seeing the new fixtures once installed, remarked, “Why didn’t we do this sooner?” We meant too…but the days passed, the months passed, and that turned into two years of neglect.

New exterior lights FINALLY installed on our Spanish style home (new paint too but that’s another post).

What have you noticed you have neglected in your space?

And now that we’re getting into it – what has accumulated in your home?

During home stay I finally found time to edit my closet. I had boxes still packed and shoved into the corners from our move two years ago. My sixteen year old is an expert organizer and I implored her to help me purge and make sense of my mess. So many clothes that no longer fit me were taking up valuable hanging space. Handbags I hadn’t used were dusty on high, unreachable shelves. My daughter helped me make a plan for the space. Cold weather sweaters are now stored in containers on the high shelving instead of the purses, since cold weather in Ojai, California is still far away. The bags I am keeping, are now accessible on lower shelving. I can use them! The joy of an uncluttered closet, lead me to expand my edit into the bedroom. Nightstand drawers were cleaned out. My dresser drawers are now half full for the first time in years. I feel lighter. It’s a new world.

Uncluttered space brings calm. Pictured, a home staging master bedroom, OHI HOME design, 2019.

Tips:

  • Schedule time for de-cluttering and organizing
  • Enlist help if you need encouragement
  • Get rid of anything that doesn’t fit
  • Throw out broken things or items missing pieces
  • Give away belongings you haven’t used in years
  • Make a “use plan” – make items more accessible that you want to use often like seasonal clothing.

A few years ago, I staged the home of a retired cancer doctor. She was a brilliant woman, renowned in her field. I was surprised to see how this smart woman was living when I first met her at her home. Her furnishings were extremely worn. Her bedding was faded and her pillows were flat. “When did you last do any updates to your home?” I asked.

“We never have. We moved in after we got married and I guess I just haven’t thought about it since,” she said. I knew my client had just celebrated her thirty fourth wedding anniversary. This explained the tired look and feel of her home. She also had a plethora of piles on every available surface. She had alot of stuff! Her home felt heavy, dark and filled with all she had accumulated over the span of four decades.

I ended up staging my client’s home while she was on vacation. She thought it would be best, as she was feeling overwhelmed just from talking about the process. The result of our hard work was another transformed, beautiful, light, spacious feeling and tranquil home. We execute these transformations on a regular basis and I was excited to reveal the outcome.

“Oh my,” she muttered, over and over again when she returned home. “It’s like a hotel. I never imagined it could look so beautiful. Do people live like this?”

“Yes,” I answered. “You can live like this from now on.”

I was thrilled to hear from my client months later, after a quick sale of her staged home and her move out of state. “I want to thank you for giving me permission to live better,” she said. “I bought new sheets yesterday. I feel like I’m twenty years younger.”

It’s always a good idea to lighten your load and beautify your life. You have time.

Boho

Boho style isn’t a new concept. It’s been popular since 2005 when Kate Moss and Sienna Miller were pop culture icons. Boho chic is influenced by the hippie culture of the 1960s and the 1970s, and is a common term nowadays in home decor. When a client lets me know this is their style, I translate this as knowing they prefer a carefree lifestyle that emotes artist expression, romantic ideals and a go-with-the-vibe attitude. Boho Style is geared towards creativity and in most recent years associates itself as well with eco-friendly living.

To create a boho look, natural tones and fabrics work best. Loose layers….flowing textiles often in fun patterns to juxtapose the neutrals. Bold accessories are components of this look- a great lamp, or a pillow with unbelievably cool fringe. I love to use Chrystals as coasters or book ends. Natural elements read so well in this style.

Natural Elements like woven baskets, lights and dinnerware are essential boho style

Boho style is easily combined with other influences. In California, a farmhouse look with a touch of Boho is extremely popular. Mid-century pieces work as well, the added curves of Boho softening the straighter edges of many modern furniture pieces. I love incorporating round oversized mirrors in rooms – black edged or sometimes brush gold for a dressier feel.

Furnishing your home in a carefree style means making design decisions that often include unique elements. This brings to life the old adage “thinking outside of the box.” I love Ninakuru hats for example, and I not only wear them but display them on wall when they aren’t in use!

From the wall to my head! Hats are as beautiful on the wall as they are on your head.

We recently staged this cute Boho Cottage in Ojai. A Moroccan rug, Indigo pillows, crochet, a cool plant, a mid-century chair, a black and white photo of a trip somewhere exotic… This living room had so many cool elements! Boho style leads to conversation. What’s the story of your living room?

Boho style often includes well thought out placement of color. The exterior of the Boho Cottage was dark and bold. Note the guest bedroom in the house. The two bold colored pillows MAKE the room. When using bold color, simplicity in style and quantity works best. “Let it be easy” is one of our of favorite bits of design advice.

What’s OHI HOME STYLE?

Over a Decade Ago…

my husband and I moved to Ojai, California with the goal to begin a new life with our then two year old daughter. We were excited about her progressive pre-school on one hundred and fifty glorious acres, the nearby organic grocery store that carried all the ingredients for our primarily vegetarian meals and the view of the Topa Topa Mountains that were to become the new backdrop of daily life. We loved the feeling of Ojai – the easy attitudes, the relaxed living, the idea that we had finally found what felt like home. We purged items from our former life in Los Angeles. The act of doing so, made us feel lighter and unburdened. We became simplified versions of our former selves. Our Ojai home became more personal, filling with hand made items from new friends and curated living pieces acquired in our new town. We began our design company Ojai Home Staging and Styling in 2009 with the intention to help others simplify, revive and renew their lives too. Now, over a decade later, we have grown and become OHI HOME, LLC – a larger version of our vision but a company with the same true intention to help all of our design and home staging clients find their ideal lifestyle vision.

Lila Glasoe Francese March 6, 2019

Why is interior home color so scary?

Hours Agonizing Over Color…

One of the number one reasons we get contacted by clients is indecision about color choices in the home. Weather it be an accent wall, kitchen cabinetry, woodwork, a powder room…choosing color requires a lot of courage. Color trends, like anything in design fluctuates with the current market. Keeping up on recent web posts or reading current magazines and catalogs is a simple way to stay abreast of what’s new in the world of color.

Pictured – Benjamin Moore’s Dark Harbor

Dark teal has been showing up everywhere and we love this bold color. When choosing a color as bold as teal it’s important that there is an in depth period of exploration. In our search for the perfect teal (pictured above), we looked at magazines, read blogs and ordered color samples to try on our walls. The final chosen color, Dark Harbor by Benjamin Moore, was perfect. We used it to paint the back wall of a dining room to extend the feeling of depth in the room. Bold dark color often achieves this goal. We have accomplished the same goal in other rooms with shades of navy and black.

Pictured – Benjamin Moore’s Dark Harbor on kitchen island

Bold color choices aren’t just for walls. A design trend we love is choosing bold color to help anchor cabinetry in a kitchen. Cabinetry no longer needs to all be the same color. We have done kitchens using one color for upper cabinetry and another for lower cabinetry. On the kitchen island pictured above, we used white paint on the cabinetry and the dark teal we used in the on dining room on the accent wall. This helped anchor the expansive kitchen and also added connection to the open dining/eating spaces.

Updating dated interior woodwork…

Interior Doors – last refinished in the early 1990s.
Painting Interior Doors Black makes this hallway space current and on trend – Paint Color is Dunn Edwards Aristosheen Black
Don’t forget to update hardware when paint is updated! New Chrome handles are so chic on this bedroom door.

We are all familiar with the dated orangish stain color used in the late 1980’s and early 1990’s. It was used in bathrooms, kitchens but most prominently on interior doors. More often than not this stain was used on solid oak which is a high quality solid wood. There is no reason to replace a perfectly good door. Instead, consider paint. With the rich dark stained floors of this house, choosing black was the perfect option. Again, try out many options of the color you are choosing. Black, for instance, has underlying hues of red, purple and green. Dunn Edward’s Aristosheen Black was the best for our project.

O H I H O M E S T Y L E

PICTURED OHI HOME STYLE CO-OWNER LILA GLASOE FRANCESE

WHAT IS OUR STYLE?

Almost a decade ago, when we opened our home styling and staging company in Ojai, CA we were fully aware that we were sharing a new vision with our audience. A vision that still, almost ten years later, centers on our primary goals -simple on trend design that is both innovative and beautiful. OHI HOME STYLE is an aesthetic we love sharing with all of you. Stop in anytime to see what’s new…

Beginning

Thanks for joining us!

Where does your day begin? How do you focus yourself for a beautiful day ahead? At OHI HOME our day starts in our BEDROOM. From the moment our eyes open our mind soaks up the environment around us. The look and feel of your bedroom should bring you joy both visually and in a tactile way. How does your bedroom look, smell, feel?

“Love of beauty is taste. The Creation of beauty is art.”

~ Emerson

“An interior is the natural projection of the soul.”

~Coco Channel

Favorite Current OHI HOME Bedroom Textiles:

-Montauk Bedding

-Alterrapure Sheeting

-Handmade Pillows from Front Porch in Brockaway, CA

-Handmade Pillows from Park City Design in Park City, UT

-Belgian Linen (Restoration Hardware, Williams Sonoma Home)

-Boiled Wool

-Mongolian Lamb

-Cashmere

-Down Inserts are a MUST

-Vintage Velvet

An OHI HOME Staged Guest Room in Ojai, CA.

“Creativity is contagious. Pass it on.”

~Albert Einstein

“Your home should tell the story of who you are, and be a collection of what you love.”

~Nate Berkus

Favorite OHI HOME Bedroom Scents now:

-Seda France, Japanese Quince

-Good Vibes Candle Company, Forest Vibes

-Lafco, Peony

-Gaye Straza, Kai

THINK LIGHTING – What fixtures create your ideal vibe?

Lighting choices we currently love:

-Vintage Midcentury Lamps (plus the hunt is half the fun)

-Silk Lamp Shades

-Lamp Shade Diffusers

-Contemporary lighting designers (Lindsey Adelman -Wow!)


Don’t be afraid to customize bedding, bedroom furniture, lighting and pillows. Your bedroom is your official rejuvenation zone. Personal design often leads to an even greater “you space.” Permission granted to create a soul gratifying, beautiful bedroom where you can truly recharge.