November, 2020
2020 has challenged us to live a new way and the holidays will not be an exception. Government officials are asking us to limit traveling and exposure to large gatherings of family and friends. Our twelve foot dining table won’t be filled this year with the smiling, hungry faces of close friends and family who normally occupy our table side seating. But, we are determined to make this year memorable too – albeit exclusively for our small tribe. There is decorating fun to be had regardless…
It Began Here
I grew up with a grandmother who loved collecting dishes, sterling silver, chrystal, colored glassware and throwing an old fashion dinner party. She loved setting an elaborate table with her collected treasures and spent hours showing me how I could learn to do the same. I keep the picture shown above under the favorites category on my iPhone. It’s a reminder of treasured time spent with my grandmother. In recent years, as coursed dinners have gained in popularity, it has been a valuable source of reference. My kids love a fully set holiday table. My daughter is especially thrilled she knows the meaning for specific sizes of forks and where they are placed. This year we will set the table together like I did, at her age, with my grandmother.
Inspiration
Last year, pre-pandemic, I flew to a friends sea side fiftieth birthday. It was a nine course meal and I was asked to come a few days early to decorate the private dining room. It was a fall event, and the cooler evening beckoned for a a cozy but elegant table palette. The room had metallic shaded lighting and I lined silver ball garlands down the center of the table to create more reflective surfaces. The light from the candles bounced off the glittery surfaces and the collection of three stemmed glasses at each setting. Because we were near the beach, white shells and starfish were subtly placed along the table design. Faux leaves were sprayed with glitter and laid underneath the white hydrangea and white rose arrangements. For me, keeping flower types segregated rather than arranged is more elegant and modern on the table. I love adding a few stems of green Amaranthus flower stems to low profile vases and casually draping their tendrils around the decorative items. When decorating for a festive occasion, don’t forget about what surrounds your table. For my friend’s party, I utilized the ledges on the stone wall for small votive lights which warmed the feeling of the room and played off the reflective colors on the table.
What you’re looking for may be in your own backyard…
Every year I forage around my backyard for table decor. This is one of the perks of living in Southern California. Luckily, a warm extended summer allowed the roses to bloom when the pomegranates ripened. I love the combination of fruit and flowers. Peppercorns are great decoration as well. I make platters combining what I find in the yard. I use them to decorate our kitchen island when we lay out a buffet for more casual meals.
The branches from my lemon tree and my orange trees also make terrific decor. In the Spring, at Easter time we leave the fruit on the branches and a citrus aroma fills our home. Mixing up dishware is also fun to do. We love to use a different pattern of Italian pottery at each setting. This is also delightful to do with china patterns, combining two or three sets together for one festive meal.
Personalize
Whether it is a monogrammed napkin or a printed glass, personalizing your table is a special treat for your guests. We have a great time designing OHI HOME items for client dinners and business gifts. At home, we bring out the gold rimmed vintage glasses monogrammed for my husband’s great grandmother’s wedding in 1915. These are some of our favorite holiday treasures. Go all out this year designing your table scape, even though it’s just for your immediate family. It’s a surprising way to lift everyone’s spirits!